| | "There are no boring subjects, only disinterested minds." --Chesterton I remember the joy of being delightfully bored when I was young and by that I mean, the time and freedom away from electronics and scheduled events where we stretched our minds and followed our imaginations to fill up the afternoon. It was an enormous gift of simplicity. My siblings and I (there were six of us) can talk for hours about the fun we invented, the world's we created. We knew how to daydream. We knew how to take blankets and throw them over tables and chairs to make tents. Sometimes it feels impossible to educate my children in the art of gratitude and an afternoon well spent.
"The test of all happiness is gratitude," Chesterton wrote. We feel no wonder at ordinary things; it is no wonder that ordinary things disappoint us. Chesterton could be made happy by the sudden yellowness of a dandelion, but we do not find dandelions delightful if we are constantly comparing them to orchids. "It is not familiarity but comparison that breeds contempt. And all such captious comparisons are ultimately based on the strange and staggering heresy that a human being has a right to dandelions; that in some extraordinary fashion we can demand the very pick of all the dandelions in the garden of Paradise; that we owe no thanks for them at all and need feel no wonder at them at all." The twin brother of this presumptive attitude is despair, and the two make us sick and tired. "Pessimism is not in being tired of evil but in being tired of good. Despair does not lie in being weary of suffering, but in being weary of joy. It is when for some reason or other the good things in a society no longer work that the society begins to decline; when its food does not feed, when its cures do not cure, when its blessings refuse to bless." ---David W. Fagerberg
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