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Tuesday, May 06, 2008

Imaginary worlds

 

 

 

"There are no boring subjects, only disinterested minds."  

                                                                                               --Chesterton

I remember the joy of being delightfully bored when I was young and by that I mean, the time and freedom away from electronics and scheduled events where we stretched our minds and followed our imaginations to fill up the afternoon.

It was an enormous gift of simplicity.

My siblings and I  (there were six of us) can talk for hours about the fun we invented, the world's we created. 

We knew how to daydream.

We knew how to take blankets and throw them over tables and chairs to make tents.

Sometimes it feels impossible to educate my children in the art of gratitude and an afternoon well spent.

 

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"The test of all happiness is gratitude," Chesterton wrote.  We feel no wonder at ordinary things; it is no wonder that ordinary things disappoint us. Chesterton could be made happy by the sudden yellowness of a dandelion, but we do not find dandelions delightful if we are constantly comparing them to orchids. "It is not familiarity but comparison that breeds contempt. And all such captious comparisons are ultimately based on the strange and staggering heresy that a human being has a right to dandelions; that in some extraordinary fashion we can demand the very pick of all the dandelions in the garden of Paradise; that we owe no thanks for them at all and need feel no wonder at them at all." The twin brother of this presumptive attitude is despair, and the two make us sick and tired. "Pessimism is not in being tired of evil but in being tired of good. Despair does not lie in being weary of suffering, but in being weary of joy. It is when for some reason or other the good things in a society no longer work that the society begins to decline; when its food does not feed, when its cures do not cure, when its blessings refuse to bless."

---David W. Fagerberg

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How powerful that statement is!  Thank you for sharing!  I enjoyed your photo!  I too remember those days and I am so grateful that they have shaped me with a creative side.  My imagination is wild but very vivid.  I don't know if it would have been if it weren't for the ways we solved the problem of boredom growing up.  Thank you again for sharing!
Posted 5/6/2008 10:23 PM by ElishaDecker - recommend - reply

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Oh man, I can't wait until my kids can really get into dining room chair tents!
One spring, my brother and I spent about 3 months sleeping at night on a blanket pallet in the hallway, underneath the attic fan. It was wonderful!
Posted 5/6/2008 10:32 PM by MyButlerBabies Xanga True Member - recommend - reply

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when i was young we had this special blanket made by a dear friend that just fit over our card table. it has flowers and windows and even a door sewed into it..i think that i might have had numerous naps and also dragged my brother to play house in there sooo many times. it was certainly a good way to continue my growing up wtih an imagination. i think we also made tents with all the pillows on the couch...we actually built tunnels and we would get sooo hot inside them...but not want to have to get out and face the real world. oh those times. last year i had to take care of a 4 years old and she wanted to make a fort to play in...it reminded me of how much my age and movement into 'rush, rush' pace of life has taken me away from those beautiful moments of purity and imagination. it was great. thank you for sharing your relfecting on this moment
Posted 5/6/2008 10:41 PM by online now mytoesareblue - recommend - reply

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Posted 5/6/2008 10:43 PM by online now mytoesareblue - recommend - reply

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Awesome post!
Posted 5/6/2008 11:11 PM by dmh1278 Xanga True Member - recommend - reply

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amazing post! I agree so much! Imagination has been replaced with video games. My 6 yr old nephew doesn't like to play outside, and he lives on 5 acres! He has cats and ducks and would rather watch TV or play video games...so frustrating and sad....

annie
Posted 5/6/2008 11:37 PM by Angel95Annie - recommend - reply

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I wonder how many tents in the family room our boys constructed over the years?  Sometimes, they used nearly a dozen blankets to make a warren of tunnels and tents.  Thanks for the memories ~

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Caleb (my 2yr old) has been bringing me dandelions with no stems on them all week.  I always make a big deal out of it with lots of hugs.  And a kiss. 

Simple things are the best things, and the best way of life.

Posted 5/7/2008 6:59 AM by purpleamethyst76 - recommend - reply

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I really appreciate the quotes you shared here. Carl recently picked up Chesterson's "Orthodoxy," and I'm thinking I really need to read it. He was such a wise man!

Your kids may not appreciate being forced to use their imaginations now, but in a few years they will be so thankful. My memories of the simplest times of play and talk are some of the happiest of all my childhood. Your kids are so blessed to have parents who refuse to let the world dictate their minds and priorities!
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I think imagination is a very huge part about growing up!!!  I have been known to put Lilly in front of the television from time to time while I clean up (if I didn't, she would get out what I was putting away over and over...) but she loves the outdoors.  My dad said just yesterday that when she woke up the first thing she asked was, "I wanna go outside Pop-Pop?  I wanna dig in the dirt!!" (She has a child size spade and rake). She plays very well with only herself and she plays well with others too.  Her cars "talk" to one another and Rocket flys through the air to another mission using her hands and mind.  She make conversations between her toys to one another....  I'm was dreamer. Heck, I still am.  So I think it's rubbed off on her somewhat.  Thank goodness.  I can't begin to imagine (hahah) what my life would be like if I didn't have an Imagination as a child or even as now!

Great post!

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You are on my mind! Love your post. Willing to go out of my comfort zone to tell you what I think. :)

Excited for October!

Moogie

Posted 5/7/2008 9:00 AM by jjfulle - recommend - reply

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That was a very good and thought provoking quote you posted.  I like it very much and find it's words to ring true in my own ears.  I am particularly touched by the insight on comparison being the problem, not familarity.  How often are we dissatisfied because we compare?  How much are we taught and programed from our own culture/society to compare?  There's always bigger, better, more efficient, faster, smaller, prettier...but that absolutely detracts from enjoying the beauty of an old woman's wrinkled face, or of the simple wonder of a grasshopper.  Yes, I like very much your post.

Not to mention the gorgeous photo of your children in their fort.  Those are lovely memories to have and to make.  And your kids always seems so pleasantly unaware of your taking their photos.  How do you manage that?!

Posted 5/7/2008 9:12 AM by AngolaDiaries - recommend - reply

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I love this reminder! The other day my daughter and I built a "camp" with an umbrella and a blanket and two beds ... I was SO glad I took the time, because too often I miss these sweet moments!
Posted 5/7/2008 1:14 PM by chilemom - recommend - reply

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thank you for this timely post. I really needed it as I am struggling with some pessimism and despair lately!!
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"how to take blankets and throw them over tables and chairs to make tents"

you have captured my childlike heart in this one statement.

I can still see, in my minds eye, the quilts my grandmother made

draped over dinning room chairs. I remember how it felt to be so far away in

a house of eight children, alone in my own private quarters.

be well, *~matthew~*

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Ah.     I do remember.   colorland and all its wonder.  dream worlds for dolls created from books and boxes.  yarn formed creatures with little voices to befriend us.  imaginations in their prime years were spent laughing and loving and I have not forgotten...  how could I forget the hours spent with you, my sister?  how rich we were.  how truly rich. 

I love you. 

always.

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i don't know you.
but i love reading your blog.
=) it makes me happy.
thanks for sharing with the xanga world.
i thoroughly appreciate it...
i hope you don't mind.
Posted 5/8/2008 12:33 AM by aLicE_1221 - recommend - reply

our family's shorts are in a bunch over your blog :)
  my mom says she loves you ;)
and we all (of course) miss your very stimulating company.

Posted 5/8/2008 9:40 PM by Amanda Kontz - recommend - reply

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i remember trying to figure out all the different things you can do with a chair by turning it over every which way. lol. nice post jobeth
Posted 5/9/2008 10:33 PM by sisterdays - recommend - reply

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Janet was telling me about this post. Brings back memories of my brother and I building forts when we were kids
Posted 5/10/2008 9:48 AM by alittledarkershadesofbrown Xanga True Member - recommend - reply

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I found your xanga through Elouise82's page. I read this post, and several down the page, and they made me unbelievably happy. Wow. Thank you! And I think that Chesterton quote could be my motto. Love the banner at the top of your xanga too!
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great post
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